Dad – # The Real Super Hero !!

APPA !! Daddy !! Father !! Naina !!
APPA is a word !! Thagapa is an Emotion !!

Okay !! So Now

  • Who is a Dad ? !!
  • What does a Dad Sacrifice for Everyone in the Family ? !!
  • How does a Dad show his love to all Members of the Family ? !!
  • Why is Dad the Most important relationship a kid should have ? !!
  • Where does Dad’s love differ from Mom’s love ? !!
  • When do you come to realize the importance of Dad’s Advice ? !!
  • Which is the best relation ? Dad or Mom !!

Let’s see !!

Google Says:

Dad – “Dad is someone who gives great advice and is always encouraging and Positive. The often overlooked and underappreciated parental figure. He listens to his child, he cares for their interests, and never laughs at their Mistakes.”

Dad is someone who would sweat his blood out to buy you anything which you ask him for !! He would try getting you even God if you ask him for that !!

Dad is the only person who loves you so much but never shows it out !! He will be acting strict always !!
But there is a reason behind that too !! You all know it !!

I like People who rise up from Rock Bottom to a decent or Pinnacle position in life !! In those Ways I am inspired by people like Mahendra Singh Dhoni, Ajith Kumar, Shah Rukh Khan, Abdul Kalam etc etc. They are all people whom I am not Close with !! I just know them by the information I gathered Online/News/Personal Interviews/Discussions etc.

But maximum life learnings I got was from my Dad !! There are both things Which I thought I should be like him and there are also things which I thought I should not be like him !! The Real Role Model of mine !! The Symbol of Hard Work for me !! To the World he is a Father !! But for us he is the World !! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Let us see about Who is my Dad !! Why he is my Role Model !! Why I get inspired by him !! Why I love him so much !!

My Dad – My Family’s Hero !! My Super Hero !!
He is a Fruit Seller who buys fruits from the Whole Sale market in Koyambedu, Chennai and sells it on the roads of the Market in Tiruvottiyur, Chennai. He is 46 Years Old now. He is working from 13 years of Age. He gets up at 4 o’clock in the morning and goes back to Sleep at 11 o’clock in the Night.

Minimum 12 hrs per Day !! Minimum 6 Days a Week !! Never takes leave on Weekends unless it’s important !! Sunday Never !! No Festival Holidays !! And Many Many More !! All this for whom !! Do you think it’s for him ! Nope !! It’s all for us ! Our Family !! He doesn’t even take dresses during Festival times !! We would convince him that all his clothes got old and he needs a new one ! Only then he will buy one ! He will buy something for 100-200 while he will allow us to buy whatever we ask which can cost 1000’s and 2000’s also.
(தனக்கென ஒரு தீபாவளிக்கும்
ஆடை எதுவும் எடுத்துக்கொள்ளாமலே,
ஆயுசுக்கும் தன் பசி மறக்க
பச்சைத்தண்ணீரையும் பருகி,
நடந்தால் கால் வலிக்குமென
விலையுயர்ந்த வாகனம் வாங்கி தந்து,
செருப்பைவிட தேய்ந்து போனவர்
என் அப்பா)

The man of great integrity who lifted me on his shoulder to show me the world which he could not see !! He worked day and night for that !! (தோழில் என்னை சுமந்து , தான் காணாத உலகை காட்டி தந்த உத்தமர் !!)

We are not that sort of a Rich kind of Family !! We have struggled a lot at times through the passage of our life and he was our Pillar standing strong in that !!
People awe when they look at People who wear suits and blazers !! But I awe at my Dad who is just a Normal Man who wears the same old Lungi and an old Shirt/T shirt !! It’s not the dress that matters ! It’s the person who is behind it matters !! What he Achieved matters !!
(ஒரு வரியில் விவரிக்கக் கூடியவரா அப்பா?
உடம்பை வருத்தி உழைத்து வாழ
குடும்பத்தை காக்க கூலிக்கு – எந்நாளும்
கந்தை உடையில் கவலையோடு உலாவரும்
தந்தையும் எனக்கு தாய்.
விவரிக்க வார்த்தைகளே இல்லை…. விடையே தெரியாத ஆயிரம் கேள்வி என் அப்பா)

He was just a small boy like me at 13 years of age who had nothing to worry about but just enjoy the Life under the shelter of his parents !! But he chose a different path !! He stood alone !! He worked for Satisfaction !! But He earned for his Family !! He liked his job !! He likes Fruits ! He knows many things about them !! Fruits are his Passion !! In his 33 years of work !! Maybe in Some of the days Fruits would have not been sold like he needed it to !! But He never changed the Things which he sells !! It was only Fruits throughout !! Fruits are his Life !!

He got married at 23 to his only Sister’s daughter !! Then his work Motivation improved more !! When he worked for himself, he used to work that rigorously !! Think how he would have worked once he got married !! He got into so many issues in his beginning days of Work !! But he never gave up !! He started selling with only one bucket of fruits walking here and there on the market roads !! Slowly he proceeded with his step !! He then got a permanent place in a market from a Grandma who used to sell Greens there !! Slowly he used to introduce new varieties of fruits which were not sold before in our area !! And he got Regular Customers day by day !! Juice Shops became in contact with him for daily supply of fruits !!

Initially he started off his Transition to Chennai Homeless !! He used to Sleep in the Shop where he used to work !! Then after moving on to Market phase !! He used to sleep on roads too !! Then slowly after some struggle he rented a house in that Greens selling Grandma house itself !! After Marriage my Mom and Dad used to stay in that Grandma’s home which had a Coconut leaves thatched hut !! I was actually born when they were living there !! My Parents used to say that Grandma used to take care of me like her own Grandchild !! She helped my Dad a lot in those days !!

Meanwhile my Dad’s Family members shifted to Chennai too !! Then he helped his family in buying a new house here in Chennai !! He helped in buying shops ! One for his brother and one for his Father ! One was a Provision shop and the other was my Favourite Fancy Store !! Then my Mom and Dad moved on with their Family together in that Own house they bought !! My Both Brothers were born there when we lived in that joint Family house !! But will Fate leave a joint Family to live together for a long time !! Many Problems came !!

So my Father decided to work harder than before and He bought a house which was Completely of his own Sweat and blood !! He earned each and every penny very hard for buying that house !! It was a house with Cement Sheeted roof ( ஓட்டு வீடு) !! It was his dream to buy a land and build a new house in it !! There were many People who were jealous and were making a barrier in achieving his dreams !! But He jumped above each and every hurdle in his life not that easily but by his Dedication, Concentration and constant Hard Work !!

I will not say my Dad is not educated !! He dropped out from School that’s all !! But he is a Fan of Newspapers and TV News !! He never missed reading newspapers or watching news any day !! He knows many things happening around the world !! Everything from the Newspaper and News !! He knows things happening around the world which I don’t even know !! ( படிக்காத மேதை என் அப்பா)

So He bought that Cement sheeted house !! I still remember the days we stayed there !! I still remember one day of my childhood !! December 26,2004 !! The Day when I saw fear in his eyes for the first time !! He thought all the hard work he did will go in vain because of that Tsunami !! But luckily nothing happened in my Area even though we are somewhat near to the beaches !!

Strong People are those who have fear inside but not expose it outside !! Bcoz everyone has fear !! There can be no one in this world who doesn’t have any fear !! Whatever hurdle came my Dad’s (4 to 11) × 7× 365 hardwork never stopped in those days !! He never gave up his dreams ! Never ! He used to Share all his earnings with his Parents, His own Family (Us), Our School fees and some for building our new house !!

He worked hard for 2 years and built our new house 😎 !! It took a year to build our new house ! So we went rented out till then !! Costs were peaking high !! But somehow he managed to settle Everything !! He was working like anything !! Many issues came while building our house !! But he never gave up !! Even money was not enough at some point !! But Somehow he managed it, he never got loan from anyone for building the house !! He made the House building progress to get slow but did not get loan from anyone !! He worked for each and every penny all by himself to build the dream house !! And that is our Home we lived Happily Ever After !!

We had many issues while staying in this home !! But our Happiness never reduced !! I remember a day on one Dussehra ( Saraswati Pooja), That night suddenly while we were sleeping some hurtling sound came from underneath our floor !! And we woke up and like in a movie scene the tiles in our house started bursting and lifting off !! Like anything !! That was a memory for us !! That night if we had not woke up just in time !! We would be inside a rubble of tiles and could have had scratches on the body or may be more !! Just Miss !! And we fixed it then but the same incident happened again !! Memories Memories Memories !! I grew up in this house only !!

I have seen all kinds of fruits from A to Z !! From Most Common selling Apple to the Most Rare Selling Plums !! Apples, Guavas,Mangoes( A Lot of Types – Summer Special ), Green Grapes, Purple Grapes, Elanthapalam, Seethapalam, Berikai, Jackfruit, Strawberry, Fig,Banana,Sugarcanes,Plums,Naagapalam,Sapota, Mosambi,Orange etc etc etc !! I love Fruits too 😍 !! Mangoes, Jackfruit, Green grapes and Unripe Guava with Chilli powder and Salt mix 😋😋😋

From No house to a House in which we leave rent for people today !! From the Roads (to) Sleeping in shops (to) living in others house (to) Renting a Coconut leaves Thatched house (to) Joint Family House (to) All the Shops he bought for people (to) the Cement Sheeted home (to) the Three Storeyed building we live in now !! Thanks to All My Father’s Hard Work !!

Whenever I see my House !! I see My Mother’s Love !! And I see my Father’s Hard Work !! Each of the things in our house are all the result of his sweat and blood !! I see his Thick and Thin in everything !! We have almost every necessary thing in my house for a Comfortable living !! It’s all my Father’s Hard Work !! Nothing Else !!

Whenever I feel low or get stuck by a hurdle, I will think of him and the constant hard work he gave no matter what he faced !! And I will get Motivated from that !! I have had only a small desire in my life !! Which is the biggest dream of my life !! All the Hard Work he did everything was for whom !! Me and My brothers only right !! I want him to be proud of how he let me grew !! Like No one should say you have grown your child in a wrong way !! Even though I don’t expect them to say you have a great kid !! I want to succeed in something and one day I should say in front of everyone like all this I am is all because of my Mom’s love and Dad’s Hard Work !! Nothing Else !! One day 🔥🔥

While making this dream of building an own house into a reality he helped many people come up in their life too !! He helped my Mom’s Side of my Family by helping them in buying a Shop for themselves and settling down !! He helped them in buying houses for their own !! He has that much of a helping tendency !! He helps people whom he fought with also !!

He helped a person who he saw was suffering in the market without a place and no customers at all like he was suffering in his initial days !! He helped him ! He introduced him to people and showed him how hard he works and about the fruit vendors he buys from !! That guy after getting all the information from him now became a competition for him in the same market selling fruits wantedly at low prices and giving a lot extra even though he runs in loss !! May be he has a business strategy or something !! But My Father’s Genuine customers are still strong !!

Since he helped a lot of people in his life in pulling them up together while he is going up in his life !! He could not reach the Pinnacle of his life !! At one point, he was satisfied and happy of what he is doing now and he stayed in the same position ever after !! My Father knows only Fruits !! Fruits !! Fruits only. There is nothing else he knew in work wise other than Fruits !! His love towards Fruits and our Family is what made him what he is today !!

Started off from nothing !! Now he has everything !! And it is now my duty to take over from here and make him Proud. Like I said earlier, he showed me the world he cannot see by lifting me in his shoulders right !! Now I want to show him or at least explain him the world I saw which he could not see !! For Him that market was the world !! He did a job which needs more Hard Work but happiness of staying with family was there !! It decreased all the pain that Hard Work gave !! Here I am staying away from family doing IT Job which requires less Hard Work but more smart work !! But still I am not having that satisfaction and Happiness !! Missing My Family 😥😔 !! One Day 🔥🔥🔥

Since My Dad sells Fruits in the market, he has to face each and every mindsets of customers !! Some Will be arrogant !! Some will be very very rude !! Some rich shits will think like he is not a common man !! He is their servant !! He has to bare everything !! All humiliations !! Everything !! My Mom used to tell us what and all he is baring !! But he controls all anger and remains calm !! Because of us only !! There was an issue in the place where he sells Fruits also !! One big departmental store came at the back of his place where he sells Fruits !! So the owner of that store planned to remove him from that place !! Because it will affect his Store’s business !! But my Dad was selling fruits in that place for more than 33 years !! It became a big case and somehow in the end because of his honesty and Helping tendency towards people !! Other people in the market fought against that departmental store owner and my Father got his place permanently without any hindrance !!

There are a lot of other chapters in my father’s story !! But I can’t say everything, else it will make a book !! There are things which I take from him and some of which I don’t as I said earlier !! I learned many things from my Father !! Like his helping tendency even when he is suffering !! His Constant Hard Work, Dedication, Concentration, Sacrifice, Unconditional Love and many other Characteristics of his !! The things I won’t take from him are: He is so innocent that he believes everyone !! He Speaks first to people by whom he was humiliated also !! He Cares a lot even if he doesn’t get it from the Opposite side !!

My Dad has Slapped me only once in my lifetime till now !! That too it was a must Slap situation !!
Me and My brothers were playing WWE in our bed and I threw my brother over bero glasses in excitement mistakenly !! That was deserved Slap !! Even I felt bad that day for doing that !! But He also felt bad for slapping me !! (கோபத்தில் அடித்தாலும் பின்னால் மனம் நொந்து அழும் மகான். அன்பைக் கூட கோபமாகக் காட்டும் தெய்வம்
தனக்கென வாழாத விந்தை-தந்தை! ) !!

Other than that I have made sure till now and will make sure in Future also that My Dad’s head should never look down once because of me in front of anyone !! Making him feel proud of me is an option !! But Making him feel bad about me I can’t take that if it happens !! That’s a rule I made for myself from my Childhood after seeing him Hard Working !! I Studied well because of that only !! Although I am not used to top the class always for making him proud !! I made sure I will not Fail so that no one will question him for me !! Bringing disgrace to him could be the worst thing I could do in his life !!

He never said I Dream of you becoming this or that !! My Mom wanted me to become a Doctor !! But My Dad would say whatever you like My Son !! You become that !! I am Happy !! If you are Happy !! My Dad he never grew me !! He let me grew !!
Now I am being a Topper of 10th, +2, Engineering TamilNadu level Rank, and in an Office under an AC job !! Everything is only ! only ! only ! because of him !! No one else !!

Here I am sitting in a Completely AC Building !! Still there he is On the Roads under the heating Sunlight selling fruits now also !! Still working hard !! That’s my Dad !! Because my Brothers are still there studying in Colleges !! We convince him that after they complete their colleges and get into job ! you quit Dad !! But I know he will never and he can’t quit !! Because it is all he know !! He can’t stop it suddenly but he will gradually one day !!

How to be kind and considerate.
How to be polite and respectful.
How to be diligent and focused.
How to be grateful and thankful.
How to be a friend and how to have a friend.
How to be a hero and a savior.
How to be faithful and committed.
How to be honest and trustworthy.
How to be generous and giving.
How to be responsible.
How to work hard.
How to love.
How to grow.
How to treat people.
I learnt this from My Dad 😎🔥

He lived his life by fulfilling all the wishes of us !! He lived his life like a Candle – Melting himself to bring light to our life !! He never thought about having anything for himself !! Instead He Cared about the food his family will have today, tomorrow and for the forthcoming generations also !! (இறை தேடும் பறவை தகப்பன்
ஒவ்வொரு குடும்பத்துக்கும் தகப்பன் ஒரு தியாகி) !!

But at times my Brothers have seen him as the most bitter person !! At times !! It happens !! You have to be both sweet and bitter to let your kids grow in a right way right !! That too for my Middle Brother he will always seem bitter 😂😂😂 !! Dai because he cares about u a lot !! But nowadays he is sweet all times !!
(பெற்ற பிள்ளைகளுக்கு பல வரங்களை வாரி தந்தும், தன்னை தானே அழித்துக் கொண்டும்,தன் சுய துக்கங்களை மறந்து இன்றை உணவுக்கு மட்டுமல்ல தன் வாரிசுகள் பல தலைமுறை பசியில்லாமல் வாழ தன்னை தானே நசுக்கி கொள்ளும் ஜீவன். ஏனோ தெரியவில்லை தான் வாழும் காலம் வரை பிள்ளைகளுக்கு கசப்பு மருந்தாகவே தெரிவார்)

My Mom Carried me in her Womb for 10 months but the person who carried me and also My mom in his shoulders ever after is my Dad !!
(என்னை பத்து மாதங்கள் கருவறையில் சுமந்தவள் என் தாய் என்றால்.. என் தாயையும் சேர்த்து என்னையும் தன் நெஞ்சில் சுமந்தவர்.. “என் அப்பா”)

To show me the God in the temple One Person used to lift me in his shoulder !! But I never realized at that time that actually the person lifting me was the real God !! My Dad
(கோவிலில் எனக்கு தெய்வத்தை காட்ட என்னை தூக்கி சுமந்தது ஒரு தோள் ஒன்று !!
அப்போது தெரியவில்லை என்னை சுமந்ததுதான் தெய்வம் என்று !!!
அது !!
அப்பா !!)

In the Words I would read, the words I often breathed is Amma and Appa !! (நான் வாசித்த வார்த்தைகளில் அதிகம் சுவாசித்த வார்த்தை !! அப்பா !!)

Dad is an iron plated Golden Statue ! But that iron becomes a flower when he sees his Child Smile !! (இரும்பு முலாம் பூசிய தங்கச் சிலை!)

I never got a boon from God !! I got God himself as a boon – My Dad !! ( கடவுள் தந்த வரம் கிடைக்கவில்லை எனக்கு !! கடவுளே வந்தார் வரமாக – அப்பா !!)

A Marvellous Painting that cannot be painted !!
An Epic that is not yet written !!
A Series that doesn’t have an end !!
Life’s first Teacher !!
An Abode of Emotions !!
An Unknown Fact !!
Dad !!!
A Good father is one of the most Unsung, Unpraised, Unnoticed and yet one of the most valuable assets of our Society !!
(வரைய முடியாத ஓவியம்😍
எழுத படாத காவியம்😍
முடிவில்லாத தொடர்😍
வாழ்கையின் முதல் ஆசான்😍
உணர்வுகளின் உறைவிடம் 😍
அறியப்படாத உண்மை😍💐

Both in Poverty and Happiness, he taught me how to be Honest and Compassionate towards others
(வருமை இன்பம் இரண்டு சூழ்நிலைகளிலும் நேர்மையாகவும் பாசமாகவும் இருக்க பாடம் கற்றுக் கொடுத்தவர்)

If my Mom is the Words of My Life’s Poem,then My Dad is the meaning of those words ❤❤❤
(அம்மா எம் வாழ்வின் வரிகள் என்றால்
தந்தை அந்த வரிகளின்அர்த்தம் ❤❤❤)

I don’t know why these Dad’s watch news always !! I don’t know what they see in it always !! Same news only will be running all day ! But then also they will watch the same lines continuously !! My Mom will be watching serial and if Advertisement comes my Dad will change to news channel automatically 😂😂 !! My Mom will say Advertisement over ! Change again to Vijay TV 😂😂 My Dad will say No still advertisement is running ! 5 more minutes is there ! but he will watch news till that serial ends !! My Mom will have any other household work and She will forget that rest of the serial is still there !! She will think it got over !! – Master Plan 😂😂 !! My Mom now made him to watch serials also 😂😂 !! Mom’s Master plan 😂😂

My Dad was the reason because of whom I started watching Cricket !! He used to watch cricket till midnight regularly in those days !! He reads newspaper also !! So we buy newspapers regularly !! And I open Sports page directly !! Read,
close and throw away the newspaper 😂😂 !!

My Dad used to bring Snacks every night !! If he doesn’t bring also we will ask him where is the snacks and will send him back again to buy something 😝😂😂!! Kaju Katli was the best sweet he bought me !! Then a lot of items like Potato chips, wheel chips, banana chips, Soan Papdi, Adhurasam, Badam milk, Ice cream, Black Forest cake, Gulab Jamun, kuli paniyaram, Ladoo, Mysore Pak ( Shittiest Sweet ever 😖) etc etc !! Happy Days were those !! If Kulfi guy rings bell at midnight !! My Father will be the first one to get more excited than us !! 😂😂!! Lets buy Kulfi !! 😂😂

Whenever we go to temples or Marina beach or Valluvar kottam, Me and My Brothers would ask him to buy us something which we would see there like FM radio, Shuttle bat, Power rangers Morpher, Brick Game Joypad etc !! He will hesitate at first but eventually will buy it for us 😂 !! Because my Chota Bhai will make scene if he did not buy us what we ask 😂😂😂😝😝😝 !! Hi Mad 😂😂😂😂 !! Good Morning 😝😝😝😝

He bought us Bicycle 3 times, all three bicycles we used only for 2 weeks and then left it alone and At Last it went to Old iron collecting shop only 😅😅 !! He would scold my brother whenever he would see that Cycle standing at a corner in my house useless !! 😂😂

During Diwali days we used to torture him like !! Dad! We don’t want dress even !! instead we can buy crackers alone worth 10000 rupees !! That Guy in the neighbour house he bought for 5000 rupees !! We should buy double the rate 😁 !! But in the end he manages to buy us crackers not for 10000 rupees but at least nearly 5000 and we never knew in those days how hard he earned that 5000 and we would convert all those earnings into ashes in one night !! Realizing everything now !!

Even though he is poor !! He never had intentions to grow us as a child from a poor family !! He will do whatever he can to make us feel like we had everything !!

When myself or my brothers get low marks in Exam , we never had that progress report signature issues !! My Father would say if not this time !! Then Next time !! Believe in yourself !! I know you are giving your Hard Work !! Continue the same !! You will achieve it next time !! Only My Mom would scold us for low marks !! No matter what my Dad believes in me that I will become a bigger person in life. I will achieve it one day for sure !!

If a child asks his Dad for something and if he doesn’t have money to buy his kid what he asked !! He would have that much pain in his heart which would be equal to the pregnancy pain !! In “Jersey” Movie – One of My all time Favourite Movie !! His Son will ask his Dad for an Indian Jersey on his birthday which is worth 500 Rupees in year 1996 !! But the Dad doesn’t have the money to afford that !! That movie is about all the struggles the Dad faces to buy his son the Indian Jersey which he wanted !! That was one awesome Inspirational movie ever for me !! ❤
I love Dad – Son Inspirational movies : The best one for me ever is “Pursuit of Happyness” – A Best Dialogue from that Movie – A Dad will tell his son : “You got a dream. You gotta protect it. If People can’t do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it too. If you want something, go get it. Period!!. And Hey ! Don’t ever let somebody tell you you can’t do something. Not even me. All right?”

Even Though he has a lot of difficulties in life !! He forgets all his difficulties if he sees his children being happy !! Whenever I face difficulties I think about how hard my Dad would have managed to not expose that difficulties to me !! And also let me grew without any of those difficulties !! My Eyes would tear down drops automatically when I am broken and I think of My Mom / Dad

My Dad used to say instead of praying like “God! Please don’t give me difficulties !!”. Pray like “Even though I face difficulties ! Give me a heart to face them without fear and overcome them with Ease !!”

Everyone talks about mother’s sacrifice but no one talks about Father’s Sacrifice !! Father’s Sacrifice is more than Mother’s !! Mother Sacrifices her life for her kid 10 Months to max 10 years !! But a Father his lifetime !!

It will be a very good feel !! When our Mom says “No” when we ask for something !! But our Dad will say “Yes” automatically on first ask !!

Mom asks you “Did you eat ?” !! But Dad will ask our Mom “Did he eat?” !! When he sits down to eat !!

My Mom will never allow our father to scold us !! If He scolds us !! She will stop him anyhow !! But She will replicate the exact anger our father had on us after he leaves !! She would say – “Think about your Father at least once, how hard he works for us !! I Only know that How he is working hard to save each and every penny for u !! And U !! What u r doing !! Realize !!” That’s My Mom !! ❤❤❤❤ And Yes my Father is a Hard worker !! He Works from morning 4 to night 11 for nearly since past 35 years !! All this Only for us !! That my Father ❤❤❤❤ !! The Word “Ideal Couple” !! It’s My Father and Mother !! They are the most suitable example for it !! Whatever he thinks !! Even before he spells out !! My Mom will say the exact thing what he thought !! And He will laugh like anything !! He will say “Epidi Ma !!! Naan yosi chadha crct ah sollirra” His laugh will show Everything !! 😂😂😂😂 Pure Hearts both !! ❤❤
The most innocent pure hearts I have seen ❤ !!

When I go home on weekends, both my Father and mother will come with me till I get into a Auto/Bus and will wait till it leaves our road/ their eyesight and then only they will go back home !!

My Biggest dream in my Life is to take my Family on a plane one day ! And let them know how the Experience is !! It will become reality Very Soon 🔥🔥🔥

My Dad is
As Smart as the Ironman !!
As Strong as the Hulk !!
As Fast as the Superman !!
As Brave as the Batman !!
He is all in one !!
My Favourite Super Hero ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🌟🌟🌟❣❣❣😍😍😍✨ !!

Behind every good kid !! There is a great Father !!
If you think I am a good boy !! It’s all the Magic of my Father !!

A Short Tamil Poem on Dad:
“அப்பா எப்போதும் அப்பாதான் !
அப்பா என்றுமே
ஆச்சரியம் தான் !
இல்லை என்பவர்
ஈனப் பிறவி !
உற்று நோக்கு !
க்ஊர்ந்து கவனி !
ஏமாற்றுபவரல்ல !
ஐய்யத்தை விலக்கி !
ஒரு போதும் விட்டு கொடாமல் !
ஓயாது உழைத்து !
ஒளவியம் பேசாமல் !
அஃதே நின்றவர் !!”

In any day,
If someone asks me
In this Second !
In this minute !
In this hour !
In this moment !
If you want to thank someone who will it be ? I
will say it’s my Dad without any hesitation !!
Even Over my Mom !! Love your Father !! He has Sacrificed many things in his life just to see a smile on your face !! A Father’s Sacrifice for his family cannot be defined in words. Never disrespect that man who works day and night for your happiness, for fulfilling your dreams before his !!

There is a Song in Tamil

“தெய்வங்கள் எல்லாம் தோற்றே போகும் தந்தை அன்பின் முன்னே !! ( Even God will lose before a Dad’s love)
தாலாட்டு பாடும் தாயின் அன்பும் தந்தை அன்பின் பின்னே !! (Even the Lullaby singing Mom’s love ranks after Dad’s love only)
தகப்பனின் கண்ணீரைக் கண்டோர் இல்லை !! (No Child can see his tears, even how difficult his situation is !! He will not let his Child know !!)
தந்தை சொல் மிக்க மந்திரம் இல்லை !! (There is no great mantra than a Father’s words (Advice))
என் உயிரணுவின் வரம் உன் உயிரல்லவா !!
(My Cell is a boon of your life ! Dad !)
மண்ணில் வந்த நான் உன் நகல் அல்லவா !! (I am a Xerox copy of u landed on this Earth !)
காயங்கள் கண்ட பின்பே உன்னைக் கண்டேன் !! ( I got to know you only after I got hurt in my life)
கண்டிப்பிலும் தண்டிப்பிலும் கொதித்திடும் உன் முகம் !! (Your face becomes red when you teach me a lesson for my wrong doings)
காய்ச்சல் வந்து படுக்கையில் துடிப்பதும் உன் முகம் !! ( Also the same face becomes nervous when I get Sick due to fever or something)
அம்பாரியாய் ஏற்றிக் கொண்டு அன்று சென்ற ஊர்வலம் !! (You lifted me on your shoulders and gave me a ride through the world)
தகப்பனின் அணைப்பிலே கிடந்ததும் ஓர் சுகம் !! ( We get the real comfort in our Dad’s shelter)
வளர்ந்ததுமே யாவரும் தீவாய் போகிறோம் !! ( We all become an Island and get separated from him after we grew up )
தந்தை அவனின் பாசத்தை எங்கே காண்கிறோம் !! ( We forget all the love our Dad gave us and we hate him always when we grow up )
நமக்கெனவே வந்த நண்பன் தந்தை !!” ( The Only Friend you have since you got birth is your Dad !!)

He never looks for praises !! He’s never one to boast !! He just goes on quietly working for those he loves the most !! His dreams are seldom spoken !! His wants are very few !! And most of the time his worries !! Will go unspoken too !! He’s there … !! A Firm Foundation !! Through all our storms of Life !! A Sturdy hand to hold on to !! In times of Stress and Strife !! A true friend we can turn to !! When times are good or bad !! One of our greatest blessings !! The Man that we call Dad !! The Hand that carries the entire Family !!

Although People say the bond between a Dad and his Daughter will be the most Lovable one !! The Bond between a Dad and his Son will be the Most Strongest One !! A Father is a Father not only because of the DNA !! But because of the inspiration, motivation and Love he shows towards his children !!

Respect him !! Make use of him and his life Experiences !! There is no use in thinking of him and worrying after he’s gone !! Get all Life Learning and Advice you can get from him when he is with you itself !! Love Him and get all the Love from him now itself !! At least Girls will realize his love after getting married and moving to her in law’s house !! But for boys they realize only after losing him forever !! Please Please Think !! And Realize !!

No matter…
How much you disappoint them !!
How much you disrespect them !!
How much you betray them !!
How much you ignore them !!
How much you yell at them !!
How many you make them Sacrifice !!
How many times you lie to them !!
How many times you ended up the reason for their pain !!
But in the end all they know is only to love you !!
Your Parents !! My Parents !! All Parents !! ❤❤

Remember one thing in your Life !! Always making your parents proud should be the most important thing you should have in life !! Never Ever send your Parents to Old Age homes in any kind of situation !! Remember How they took care of you Whenever you felt sick !! Whenever you tortured them !! Whenever you disobeyed them too !! They were the only support for you while you were growing !! They are the only ones who believed in you when no else did !! Make their Dreams come true !! Make them Happy !! Be Happy !! Spread love !! Never Forget the Hands that raised you !!

Love you 3000 APPA !!! ❣🌟😎🔥✨✨

When you find your death date!! – Chapter 3

When you find your death date!!


November 6, 2019


“What are you reading this late in the night Mr. Inspector?”, his wife asked.

Inspector replied, “Nothing, it’s just the diary of the accused number 1 of Rawther’s murder case. It’s been 3 days since the murder of Rawther. There is not much of a clue where this Number 1 accused, Raghu can be. We are not even sure of the motive behind it. There has been no contact or a past feud between Rawther and this Raghu. What could have been the cause? An educated normal youth murdering a rogue gangster. That is not that easy. There should have been a sketch and a big hand behind all this. That is why I am damn sure I guess he was pushed into doing this. Someone was behind all this. I am reading this diary to find out clues. I guess it is working. Someone has been behind him all the while chasing him day and night”. 

But is it really required for you to find clues by reading this at 3 o’clock in the night, his wife asked. “It’s a duty of a policeman, Paru. You have a good sleep, I will sit there on the sofa and will continue. Good night!!”, Inspector replied

(Inspector starts reading the Diary again)

October 29, 2019


“You ran inside your home to see if your mom is sleeping right. But do you really know she was only sleeping?”

I ran to the hall at once on seeing this message. She was lying down without any movement. I took my hand near my Mom’s nose to check her breath. My heart was beating at a very high speed! Lub! dub! Lub! Dub! LubDubLubDubLubDub!!!!! And when my hand reached near her nose, I froze in shock. My shock was not from my Mom’s side. My Mom’s breath touched my fingers. But my heart beats increased since I felt the presence of a 6th person in the home. It felt like someone was watching me while I was checking my Mom’s breathe. And I felt that image standing right behind me. Right when I turned to check on who it was. That image caught hold of my hands from the back and closed my mouth too. It was so powerful for me. I couldn’t even try getting out of the hold. It was that strong. It dragged me slowly out of the hall, closed the door slowly at the end of the hall and then dragged me to the Veranda of the house. Since it was dark I could not see how it looked. It was just a black silhouette that I can see. He pushed me down onto the floor with his hands still holding my mouth. But his knee completely pressuring my back. Yes I am 99% positive that this is for sure a man.  It was such a strong hold. He kept a button knife near my side. Then he covered my head with a plastic jute bag. Since he took off his hand from my mouth for doing that…I tried shouting, “Appa”…..!!! He pushed me bang with a huge force to the ground and took off in the direction towards the staircase. I removed the jute bag from my face at once. I ran towards the balcony at once. When I looked out at the street there was no one there. I ran down the staircase, but the gate of my house was still locked. I ran up to the terrace gate. It was closed too. I was totally bizarre about what was happening. I searched the nook and corner of the house. If all the gates are locked. Then he cannot escape. He should be inside somewhere here. But he was nowhere to be found. The Only possibility is he jumping out of the balcony and that is foolish. He would break his ankles if he did that. I was totally confused. I went near the Veranda, took that Button Knife in my hand, then went inside the hall and took the key chain that had the set of keys from the table. Slowly and silently moved inside the bedroom, took my phone, placed it in my pocket, and took Karthi’s Bike keys too. Then I walked towards the terrace steps, opened the terrace gate and sat on the cement pillar that was at the center of the terrace and I started crying out loud. This is now more than torture. There is a limit for anything. I can’t take it anymore. But the one behind this is Mr. Death or Joseph?? But why then Mr. Death asked me to go and check my mom. It must be him. I wiped off my tears, took my phone out. Switched on the mobile data, went to play store and checked for True Caller App. I remember Tamizh telling me this, one can find the owner of any mobile number if he is registered to this app or even if someone who had registered had saved his name in his phone too. This app uploads all the contacts list from your mobile into its cloud server and then when you search for it, it retrieves that data and shares it to you. If I am lucky, I can find his Name somehow from this. I installed that App and searched for that random number. I was really shocked when it showed the name as Mr. Death. I got up and kicked the cement pillar. That was a foolish idea. My Legs hurt like hell on doing that. I also have heard, there are websites online for tracing the mobile number location. I typed in google, “How to trace a lost mobile sim by using its mobile number”. It showed various sites. I opened one of its which was at the top, I typed that random number and clicked on Trace. It showed a spot around Chhattisgarh as the location. Actually I have heard before from friends how mobile number tracing works, they triangulate the spot using the network towers that are around the place where the mobile number was mostly active. I tried the second website and it showed Norway. Third one showed Bangalore. Then the fourth showed some random place in the coastal areas of Kerala. How pathetic these websites are, I thought to myself. I closed the browser. Then went to text messages to check if I received any new messages that I may have missed. But the last one was still, “You ran inside your home to see if your mom is sleeping right. But do you really know she was only sleeping?”. My blood started simmering on seeing that again. I went near the edge of the terrace and looked around but there was no one around and the night was still calm and cold. I came and sat at the same spot again. I was clear that this button knife was clearly a point. With this he showed me, he can do anything to anyone. A ripple of fear increased and I started panicking. Now I have to find out by any way possible who this Mr. Death is. So there came an idea, I decided to check the old conversations in my social media apps to check if I had offended someone which may have led them to do such things. I opened the browser and typed, “Facebook.com”. Entered my username and password. I checked the notifications. There was absolutely nothing. The last notification was like a month ago. Someone liked a comment that I posted on a RCB IPL team related post. Then I opened the messenger and checked for messages. There were messages from Tamizh and some of my colleagues and Bangalore roommates. It was just some chit chats, nothing special. I closed the browser. Then Installed WhatsApp. It took 10 minutes for loading and setting up all the back up. Backup was more than 3 GB data of messages, media and other things. Once it was all set up. 

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The first thing that I saw was the last message from her. I wanted to close it and stop reading it. But I could not. I started reading it again,

“Raghu, I never knew we would get this close as we now call it as best close friends. I don’t think I can confine it within this word. I have never ever seen a person who cares, who loves, who supports, who scolds, who makes fun of me like you in my life. The thing is I can’t hide any of my issues or any silly funny thing that I come across from you. I just always wanted to see your smile, just wanted to go out with you in the evenings, just always wanted to scold you as idiot, psycho, mad, stupid, Mr. Attitude, more and more. Because you are my idiotic friend. And I love doing that. If there was a competition for finding who is the best fan of you. I will never ever let anyone win over me because I should be the first one in the list always. I always see you as the world’s best in whatever you do. I don’t know why. I am damn sure, the girl who comes into your life would be the most precious queen than anyone who lives in this world. I wish to hear from you one day like, “See this is my queen, she is my everything, she is the one for me, thank you a lot that you made me realize you are not the one”. I’m waiting for that day. You would always say, “I know everything that I am saying”. But No I never knew most of the things that came out of my mind, I was the one and only foolish person on earth for the mistake I have ever made. May God give me good thinking in the upcoming days. I will miss you a lot as you already know. I missed you every day when you stopped speaking and coming out with me, by always saying lame excuses. I don’t know how to make up for those days. I always say this to everyone. I like Raghu because he is the best friend anyone can have. You know that. I always have no reason for anything that I do. It is because mostly I don’t know the reason or just don’t have a clear idea about the reason. Please forgive me for those things. I want to be that best close friend of you always. When you gave me that Friendship bangle, I felt that. I thought to myself I got the best gift/weapon in the world which will keep me safe from any bad thing. I will always keep it with me. I’m getting all the support and strength if it is with me. It is all because of you. It replaces you in your absence. Some of the words you say, I don’t know how it all created some great impact on me. Even if you say something about your other friends also. I would always feel like yeah, such genuine words. I would feel like you are saying it from your heart. Like you know everything. Like you are a genius. Hey don’t think that I am lying. I will kill you…That was my wish, to kill you, you also know that but you know this also that I can’t see you in trouble and hurt. On one of your Facebook posts on your friend’s birthday, I guess it was for Tamizh. You said no one can be like him in friendship but I want to say, want to say proudly, you are my best close friend. How Tamizh is for you. You are that for me. So no one can be like us as best close friends. You are one of a gift anyone can get. The chocolates you bought me unexpectedly that one day was the one thing that made me happy and think that this idiot is actually not that bad. You became a good Psycho inside my heart. The One and only thing I don’t like in you is, sometimes you start speaking completely negative things, like in that speech you gave recently in our Office Workshop. Please Stop doing that, you are best in all your own ways. Don’t hear what others say about you. Don’t compare yourself with anyone. Saying this to you seriously once again. If you think negatively again about you, I will kill you. Seriously I’m always jealous of your relationship with other friends. As you are only hearing and listening to their words and you never listened to my words most of the time. Now I am leaving from here soon. We both know the reason for it and I believe you will be that “Nalla pullai” for your Mom and Dad. Don’t fight with them because in your life, the only constants you have will be them. Don’t worry. If you want to fight with words, come on do it. I am Okay with it. But if you start to take mouna viratham. It will start to pain in my heart. I have cried several times when you do that… Tell me one thing, Why are you like this? Why are you like an emotionally attached psycho? Don’t be like this and don’t skip your food and all okay. Don’t think that you are not good looking and all. You are mad if you think like that. I’m saying, you are good looking. More than your looks, your heart shines brighter. See who is appreciating you. The Miss World (Me). So be happy for that okay. I’m here friend as your irritating torturing idiot, be happy for that and thank god always. I know you will not thank god, but still just for me always do that. Sometimes that is good even if you’re a believer or non-believer. All the best for your future. You would always tell me, you want to prove to everyone that in fact you are good at something. You wanted to make your Parents proud. You wanted to prove to your mom that you are in fact happy with what you do. Do it. Prove it. I will be happy seeing you achieve that, my best close friend. Have that fire inside you always. And as always be the best performer and do your work with concentration…!! Forget all the Misunderstanding we had and come back to me as that best close friend that I ever wanted to have in you. You know all the reasons. We have discussed that already, I don’t want to touch that part again. So take your time to pardon me and come back to me as my Best Close Friend again.

You idiotic best close friend,


I long pressed the WhatsApp icon on my home screen and clicked on the “x” button over it. It got uninstalled. I then just locked the screen of my phone and I don’t know why, I just sat there looking at the sky for the next 1 hour speaking nothing and distracted by nothing. Cold started getting heavier and soon I started shivering. So I decided to go back down to the room and sleep. I was just lying down in my bed, looking at my ceiling thinking why in the world I am like this, and why I have hurt so many people and why is someone hurting me now. Maybe this is the same way they too have felt when I hurt them. Many many things were running in my mind along with tears. I was not aware when I slept but I did gradually.

At around 5.30 in the morning, I woke up and checked my phone but there was no message from Mr. Death. I started wondering why there was no message yet. Did the person who was here yesterday, was that him? Did something happen to him when he tried escaping? I was just in complete chaos. I got up, took the bike and drove towards the En-Fore Beach. I parked on the road side and went inside the beach, climbed on the seaside rocks, went to the far end of it and sat there looking at the awesome view of the rising sun. The golden waves were hitting the rocks second after second. I was in deep thoughts about her again. That last message from her had already made an impact on me. It felt like I was the most miserable creature on earth now. But still I had no clue who this Mr. Death can be? Not even one? I had to find at least one as soon as possible before any miserable thing happens. I thought about the second riddle that I found on the terrace yesterday. It was “I can’t walk but you can walk with me! I don’t run but a part of me can! I am a drinking addict but I am steady only after drinking! If you want to get work out of me, you have to buy me a drink! I always prefer drinking only foreign drinks! If I fall down alone I will have less damage! But if we fall together you will have more damage than me! You wanted to be my best friend for a long time!! But you were shy of the world!! But we are friends now yet to be best friends!! Find me!!”. I was thinking and thinking and thinking but nothing came to my mind. 

While thinking about this, Tamizh was the one who came to my mind. He was actually very good at solving puzzles and riddles. There was a day during our college time, both I and Tamizh with a gang of friends attended a Symposium in SSN College. There was a Treasure Hunt there too. And since as you know I was from Mechanical and it was a mechanical symposium, it was completely based on the subject topic and was so boring. But Tamizh loved solving them very much. It was around 6 PM. I called Tamizh by phone. He attended it. He replied in a Sleepy tone, “Helllllllooooo! Haan!! Tell me da!! What do you want so early in the morning? Anything important?”. I said to him, “Nothing important da, just wanted a help from you”. 

“Okay tell me”, he said. 

“I want you to solve a riddle for me”, I replied.

“What? Are you mad? Calling this early in the morning and asking me to solve a riddle? Go and Sleep you idiot”, he scolded.

I said, “Listen to me Tamizh this is important, don’t ask me why. But help me solve it”. 

“Okay, tell me”, he replied. 

I started telling him the riddle. He stopped after the second line, “This is a stupid riddle, as simple as that, who made up this, and I can tell you what it is from the first line only”. Seriously you couldn’t find it? Let me break this up, into pieces. I can’t walk but you can walk with me! I don’t run but a part of me can! Answer is Bike dood. It can’t walk but you can walk with it by pushing it with the handle. It can’t run but its Engine can. Rest you figure out, you can relate the rest of the lines by yourself. I am going to sleep. Bye. And he had cut the call. Now everything was completely clear to me!! Even the rest of the lines I could relate to very easily. Actually Tamizh is great. I felt proud of having him as a friend. Always did. 

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I ran towards the bike at once. There is only one place in the bike where any paper or anything can be. I opened that zip, and checked if anything was there. Yes there was. A Paper with my Third Riddle. This guy calls himself Mr. Death but acts like Mr. Alibaba who has hidden his treasure somewhere? What the hell is this!! I opened the paper, it had absolutely nothing. It was completely empty. A blank sheet of paper. I felt like, “What?”. And Boom came the text message with a vibration in my phone. It read the following, “Hello Raghu! Hope you will take everything seriously from on! You would have understood how serious I am in this now. I can see you found the second clue now. And I can see your face completely biased on seeing the blank paper. Yes you should be. But it indeed has a clue with it. But to use this 3rd clue to find the next clue. You have to find the answer to this riddle, “I can be sparkling but I’m not a star. I can run but I don’t have any legs. I can fall but I don’t get hurt. Wash me and I will become unclean. Don’t wash me and then I am clean. What am I?” Find it and use it to find the next clue from the third clue. Be serious from now on. I am not only watching you. But I am so close by to you too”. 

I kept the paper in my pocket and started the bike. Just when I got near the T-way road on the turn for En-Fore beach towards Tiruvottiyur. I found a Police Car there with sirens on. I panicked a little since I don’t have a license. I looked straight towards the road and speeded my bike without looking at the Police Car when passing by. Just when I crossed it, it started following me. I continued driving without looking back. Though all the panic in the world was inside me, I stayed calm and continued on. As I reached the end of the road, I took a right turn and the police car took a left turn. I was relieved only after that. Then I drove back home and laid myself on the bed again.

At around 9 AM in the morning, I woke up. The extreme brightness of the tube light in our dark bedroom actually woke me up. I could see Karthi getting ready for college. I got up from bed, I was still feeling a little bit of pain in my leg which I earned myself by kicking that cement pillar. I walked out towards the balcony. It was a cloudy day. It may rain this evening or night that is for sure. When I look at my street, always I remember the way how I explained about my area to a friend in Bangalore. 

I said, Listen and picture what I am saying dood so you can understand it. My street is more tightly packed. Houses are in lines one after another with no gap between them. Like if I get into one of the houses in my street. I can easily reach the last house via the terrace itself. During my school times, there were a lot of kids of the same age in most of the houses of my street. They have now eventually moved on to different directions due to work and other sorts of things. We used to do terrace jump races. My street is a dead end. My house is the last one of the street at the dead end. We used to race from my house till the house that connects my street with the market road. This is not just another race, this had risks. We did get injured. So, don’t try this at school, home or anywhere. Even we do kite runs like this. Also our area is built up like rectangular blocks. Like a bunch of buildings with many dead ended streets at the center and roads covering on all four sides. My dead end street is just one such small street inside that rectangular block.  I can even travel from one end of the rectangular block to another which is nearly 300 meters apart via the terrace itself. This is how our area is built up. And the market road I said you is one of the roads covering my rectangular blocked island on one side. On that road, people used to sell all the day to day necessary things. That is why it is called Market road. Similarly Tiruvottiyur consists of a lot of rectangular blocked islands surrounded by roads one after another. Can you picture my area now? Yes you should. If you can’t then forget about it. Hahaha…!!

Karthi shouted from the bedroom, “Hey Raghu someone has text messaged you it seems. Your phone gave a ring”.

I ran at once to the bedroom, unlocked the phone and checked the message. It read, “Good Morning Raghu. I am feeling very excited to welcome you to this great exciting day. You are going to follow my orders blindly today. If you do that, by the end of the day, I will give you a prominent clue on finding who I am. I think by now that will be the biggest question running in your mind. So there is a big benefit for you in this. You want to stop me right. Then follow my orders blindly today. But do remember all the basic things that I said to you the first day. Behave well towards me. Don’t try to be smart with me. In the end it will be you who will suffer. As I said, if you behave well it will only be you who will be coming with me. Else I have to take a lot of you who you love with me too. Remember that statement like you’re taking a breath. Okay so my first order is, Take your brother with you to the police station and withdraw the complaint now at once. Also take that parcel you received yesterday with you. After complaint withdrawal, wait for my orders by standing in the bus stop. Also ask your mom to collect the parcel which you will receive today afternoon since you will not be in the house to collect that. Cheers!!”

I said to Karthi, “Come with me, let’s withdraw the Police Complaint about your bike. We should not be late on that, else we would complicate that. I said to mom to collect the parcel and left for the Police station”. We went by bike to the police station, dropped it outside and went inside. We reached out to the head constable there. I said, “Sir! Yesterday my brother gave you a complaint about his bike that got lost”. The Head Constable stopped me there at once. He said, “See son there are a lot of cases to be handled here. Our Area has a lot of higher priority cases to be solved. So it will take time to start the investigation of your theft case. We will call you if we get any clues, Leave your number at the information desk and go. Now stop disturbing us. Inspector will be here at any moment”. I said, “Sir! Sir! Sir! Our bike was not stolen. We actually came here to withdraw our complaint”. “What?”, the head constable replied. “It’s just his friends that had played with him sir. So if you let us know the procedure we would withdraw and leave at once sir”, I said. With a stern look the head constable said, “Okay go to the information desk and ask the person there. He will tell you what to do”. I replied, “Okay Thank you sir”. Just when I turned someone dashed over me and my bag fell off my shoulder. I hoped nothing would have happened to the parcel. I should not have broken it. I picked it up, said sorry to the person and moved towards the information desk.

We withdrew the complaint and Karthi left for college on his bike while I stood there at the bus stop waiting for the next order. It sounds like I’m working as a delivery boy in Swiggy right? What a miserable person I am. This is all happening due to my own karma. I waited for more than 15 minutes. I checked my phone like every 3 minutes, but there was no message at all. I sat there on a steel slab in the bus stop and watched the vehicles going here and there. It made me think of college days. I used to travel by bus to my college. Me, Tamizh and many other friends from my area used to footboard casually. We did get horrible scolding from the conductors but we never cared. I miss those days. Anyone will miss those School and college days right. There was a day when we had to bunk our class because of Tamizh. Like every day, we got into our bus to KK Nagar, that day the bus was having an average crowd. Just after Simpsons stop, a girl got into the bus. She was so pretty, like a girl made out of Rasmalai. But I gave up on her. Since I have never seen Tamizh so enthusiastic in my life ever. He was doing all kinds of stunts on seeing her. He was combing his hair, laughing with 64 teeths (Just don’t ask how come there are 64 teeths, this is just for explaining his enthusiasm), blushing like someone was praising him endlessly. Even she too was seeing him through cross eyes. What can I do? He compelled me to bunk the class and to come with him to follow her. We did follow her from Simpsons to Express Avenue. She got down from there. And that was the first time, I visited Express Avenue Mall, all credit goes to him. I told him, “Dai Tamizh, if she is going to such high end malls, she must have a boyfriend da. Stop, it’s a waste of time. Come Let’s go to college”. He was so confident. He said, “Its okay da. Come with me, I just want to look at her face the whole day. That is more than enough for me”. What can I do? He is my best friend. I went inside with him. The mall was huge. There were lots and lots of shops all around. We searched for her each and every floor. He was praying she should not have a boyfriend. I was laughing like anything. Floor after Floor we go, sign after sign we search, he started getting more and more anxious. And then we found her. She was working in Soch, a Saree shop. We went inside and talked to her. I said, “Sister, Please show us some sarees. I want to buy one for my Sister”. She asked me, what kind of Saree do you want? I asked Tamizh, Dai what is a kind of saree da. A saree is a saree right? Tamizh said to her, “Show him the Ones his Sister can wear. It will be better if it is in Green or blue color. Even a mixed of both will be perfect. It can be a Silk or linen but it should be a designer Saree. It will look perfect on her”. I was just looking at him like he was a genius in Sarees. “Saree for his Sister or yours? You are choosing what will be right for her!!”, She asked. “Yes it is for his Sister, but I was the one who found that Angel sister of his in the bus today. I don’t know if they made her right out of Rasmalai or something”, he said. I was shocked to hear that, that was my dialogue. “She shines that much brighter in my eyes and my heart. I don’t know if that Angel from heaven is single. Do you know?”, He asked. She stared right into us. She called the security. And we ran away from there.  That was a memorable day. Haha..!! But eventually Tamizh did capture his Rasmalai angel. She said to us that she laughed like anything when we started running from there without even turning back. She is a perfect girl for Tamizh. Her Name is Poornima. Still they are together. They will get married soon. But what about me..!! 

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The thought about me broke my thoughts. Also I felt the vibration in my pocket. I took out the phone from my pocket. The message read, “Get into the Bus number 101 which is coming now”. I looked towards the right end of the road. Yes, I could see bus number 101 coming towards me. I got into it. I sat on a seat that was one row before last. Bus was filled in all seats. And we reached En-Fore Beach and the same feeble Old Man whom I Ignored on the day I was leaving for Bangalore came near me and stood near me again. But this time, I said to him, “Grandpa, Please sit in my seat. I am going to get down”. He said, Thank you son, You are a good boy. I smiled and moved near to the door. Next moment the next message came. I felt shocked when I saw that. It read, “Snatch the handbag of the woman in red saree when she gets down at Kasimedu and run for your life. Just follow my order blindly, don’t even think about not doing it”. I started feeling nervous now. I looked around and it felt like everyone was watching me. I started sweating like anything. The Old man had seen my face as well, what if he gets down at Kasimedu as well. What if someone caught me while snatching the bag? First of all why am I doing this? Everything was running in my mind. The woman in red saree was standing near the other door. I tied a Kerchief around my face incase no one can register my face in their mind. Even the old man could not remember me that accurately, since he was so feeble. I believed that. I slowly walked towards her. I stood right behind her. I looked around if anyone was watching me. It felt like everyone was watching only me. I don’t know why. Suddenly one guy got up from his seat and walked towards me fastly. I panicked. He came to me and said, “Thambi”. I started sweating. He said, Can you move? I want to get down here. Uffff…I thought that was close. I moved, so he went to the footboard. When the Kasimedu stop came, the Lady slowly went near the footboard. I followed her from behind. Step by step I followed her. Just when she was about to keep her stop out of the bus. I snatched her handbag, pushed her down and ran like anything without looking back towards anyone. I just kept running. But I don’t know why no one followed me to catch me. It was as if this was regular here. Not even one followed me. But I kept on running till Royapuram, the next stop. I opened my shoulder bag and kept the handbag into it while running. I entered Hotel Pandiyas in Royapuram and sat there with my heart beating more than 100 LubDubs a minute. I felt horrible about me. I pushed a woman today. I snatched a handbag today. Is this why I have studied? Am I alive here for doing such a yucky thing? I slapped myself in anger. The kerchief flew in the air in reaction to that. People around looked at me like I was mad. I took my bag and walked out. Next minute, the message came, “Empty that Handbag in the dustbin behind the Idreams Theatre. And throw the bag wherever you want”. I was so frustrated reading this. If I find this fucker, I don’t know what I will do. Better he should run away now only. I was biting my teeths and controlling my anger. I did just as the message said. Emptied the Items from the handbag on to the dustbin and threw the handbag high into the walls of Idreams Theatre. And ran away from there. I prayed to God this time, like she said in that last WhatsApp message. Please there should not be any CCTVs in this place. I looked all around carefully. But there was nothing around. I felt relieved. But there can be one on the way I ran from Kasimedu to Royapuram. Or there can be one in that Hotel Pandiyas. I started panicking again. I don’t know what the intention for making me do this was. But I hoped it was for good. Although it doesn’t look like it. I sat on the pavement near the front gate of Idreams theatre with a lot of thoughts in mind. And got the next order, it read, “Go for a Movie now, and spend your next 3 hours inside Idreams”. I got a ticket for Kaithi movie. It was the one running for that show in Idreams. Kaithi. What a coincidence. I thought. Yes, I will be one soon. In the checking counter, they opened my bag. They asked me what that parcel was. I said, it was a gift for a friend. It’s his birthday today. They said, Okay, convey our wishes to him too. I was like, “Woah”. Movie started in less than 10 minutes. I was so into the movie. That I forget about Mr. Death completely. At the interval, I got up to go to the restroom. Just when I reached the entrance of it. I heard a voice that I have heard before. I looked inside, it was that lean guy who was with Joseph yesterday, whom I slapped a Palaaaarrr !!!. He was standing there joking about something to his friends. I walked fastly out of there and sat on my seat. I hoped he was not nearer to me. I am alone now, I don’t have Tamizh or Karthi now. What if Joseph is also here? But that’s not possible. He cannot be here, since he would be at hospital now. But I am into trouble even if this guy sees me too. I have to be careful. When I was thinking about all this next message came, “Hey Raghu! I forgot to tell you what was in the parcel right?”. The movie is awesome right. Like a Bomb. Vera level right…!! The same is in your bag. Don’t open it. Idreams will go kaboom if you open the parcel. And you have roamed with this inside a Police Station, inside a Hotel and now inside a theatre too. How horrible you are!! Be very careful, don’t open it or throw it down harshly or something”. I felt a sudden surge of fear. I remembered that I dropped it on the floors of the police station when I dashed against someone. I started panicking. I could not concentrate on the movie. I looked around if someone was noticing me. If that Mr. Death was close by. But everyone was watching the movie so interestingly with their faces glued to the screen. I kept my bag slowly below my seat so that I would not disturb it. Not even a word from the movie was going to my ears. I was completely distracted, I was just looking up and looking down at the bag again and again. After some time, my concentration fully went on the bag. I had bent down slightly to take the bag. Just at that moment, the sound went bang…dum..dum…dum…dum…dum…!! I felt like my heart stopped. I looked up, it was Hero Karthi who was shooting the Machine Gun in the movie. I felt like the biggest stupid that can ever be. I took the bag and walked out of the theatre. They said, I have to wait till the movie ends. And that it will end in 10 minutes. I stood there near the door, which was at a higher position over the steps and I watched all around the theatre. In 10 minutes, the movie ended and the lights were on. Everyone got up from their seats. I looked around if someone was noticing me, but I made a mistake. That lean guy shouted, “Maame! He is the guy who broke Joseph’s hand. Catch him. They ran towards me. The crowd slowed them down. I ran exactly like when I ran after snatching the handbag means I ran for my life. I ran to the bus stop, got into a 101 bus. From the footsteps, I looked out behind the bus. They were still running behind the bus. I went and stood near the front door of the bus in case that if they reached the bus, I could jump out of it. But they stopped. And walked back. I took a deep breath only then. Then I sat on a seat behind the driver. Only then I remembered, “Oh My God! The Bomb”. I shouted, “Stop the bus”. And ran out of it. I had to throw this now somewhere safe. I ran and ran and ran to Kasimedu and then to Enforce beach. I walked over the sea side stones to the edge of it so I could throw it if anything happened. The stones were so hot in the late afternoon. Just when I reached the final rock, I got a message, it read, “You believed me right Raghu! That It was a bomb. See this is how fear works. Hahahahaha…!! It is not a Bomb. Don’t worry!! Cool yourself, it’s so hot out there!!”. I had hit my bag along with parcel madly again and again on the rocks and screamed as if someone has stabbed me….Aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh !!!!!!!!!!! Thaa…*****…*****…*****…*****…*******……All the bad words you can imagine came from my mouth. Even I don’t know what some of it are. I have just heard it from somewhere. I just sat there looking at the never ending ocean, thinking all about my never ending misery. They say, “As you sow so shall you reap” and I am reaping now, absolutely everything. 

I called Tamizh at once. Tamizh, Come soon to En-Fore beach, I am sitting at our usual spot. I have to tell you something. He just cut the call without replying. We have that much of a connection. He knows when I am in trouble. I sat there waiting for him. 

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An incident came into my mind. There was this day during our final year. When a first year boy named Fairoz joined our college. His father asked me and Tamizh to take care of him since he is new to the college. He also asked us to take him with us to college since he has not traveled often by bus. One day while we were traveling together to college, I asked him why you are wearing your ID card even before entering the college. Don’t spoil the senior’s name. If you are wearing an ID card, please don’t come with us. He removed it and kept it in his pocket. I said such words only to make him keep it in his pocket so that I can snatch it and make fun of him for some time. The plan worked out very fine. When we reached our college stop. He started shouting, “Bro! Bro! My ID card is missing. Did you see it”? I said, “how come I would see it. Do you think I took it from you secretly and threw it somewhere? You are not a kid anymore, you have to safeguard your things”. “That is the reason I wore it in my neck bro. It was you who asked me to keep it in my pocket”, he said. “I don’t know man, if you don’t have your ID card, you can’t come inside the college. You know that right. Go and search it, maybe it fell somewhere while we were walking from the bus stop to college. Go and find it”, I said him. He went running towards the bus stop and we went inside the college. Tamizh did not know anything about this. So we both went inside the college. I thought I will make him search for at least 15 mins and then anyways he will come here and ask the watchman in the gate. I will give him that at that time. Since I had some important project related work that day I completely forgot about him. And only in the evening, I realized what I had done. Since he did not have his ID card, he quarreled with the watchman. And they had to call his HOD on checking if he is really part of their department. And his bag was also searched that day and it seemed he had bought his mobile phone for the first time to college. And Mobile phones are prohibited in our college. So it was snatched and a message was sent to his parents as well for his ill disciplinary activities. And eventually his father had to withdraw him from the college after some days due to some reasons and made him join another college. But all these things would never have happened if I had not taken his card that day. No one knows about this, not even Tamizh. Now I am understanding how painful it would have been for Fairoz that day. I slapped myself again.

I heard Tamizh’s voice shouting from a far distance, Raghu! Raghu!. I turned and looked at him. He asked me to climb down from the rocks and to come to the sandy area of the beach. We both sat there and he asked, “Tell me what happened?” 

I stammered, “Tamizh! Ta! Tamizh!” 

“What is there to hide to me? Tell me openly whatever it is we can solve it. I am here to solve it for you. Tell me”, he said. 

I said, “Okay! That day I was sitting at the railway station right, after fighting with mom and with an idiotic cowardly mind of running away to Bangalore and never coming back. That day someone called mom and gave some false information right? Do you think that was really a false information and do you think there can be any bad intention behind that?”. 

“Don’t think too much da that was just some wrong call. Like I said to you that day, that person on the other side of the call didn’t even mention your name. He just randomly said your son met with an accident and had cut the call. Don’t think about that, leave that. Refresh your mind. Think about how you can make your day happy if you are sad. If you are happy, think about how to make it happier. Don’t think about such useless things. They waste your time and happiness”, He said.

I said, “But!”. And my phone started vibrating in my pocket. I decided not to tell about Mr. Death to him as of now. So I wanted to divert the topic. 

He said, “Hey Sir! What are you thinking deeply about?” 

“Yesterday night, I reinstalled WhatsApp da. I saw her last message. I don’t know why it is not going off my mind at all. Although I uninstalled WhatsApp again. The message got registered in my mind and I can see it in front of my eyes everywhere”, I said.

“See Listen to me, let me tell you a short story. Just try to understand it. Let us say One day you hear a secret news from someone that they have found pearls in the beach by the sand. There were oysters with pearls which had been pushed to shore by some way. By Any way that is not important here. And you rush out here to find a pearl for yourself too. You started searching all through the sand, under the rocks, everywhere around the beach. And while searching for the Pearl, you had come across a pebble which was also shining under the sun. You took the pebble in hand and you were so happy to have found it. You just sit here with the pebble in hand forgotten all about why you really came here. You are just enjoying yourself with your pebble. You are throwing it in the air and catching it. You are washing it with the water of the sea. You are lifting it and showing it to the sun. You forgot yourself and you believed that this pebble is the thing which is going to change your life. But suddenly you see me 

Walking by the shore. Maybe I was the one who gave you the secret news. Even I started searching for what I wanted all around. I dug holes around in the sand to search for it. I searched everywhere like you. Even I came across a pebble in between. I kept the pebble in my pocket. But I never forgot why I came here. I still continued searching for the Pearl and at last I got one. A beautiful oyster with a shining beautiful Pearl. I showed it to you and then you looked at your pebble and realized what you have done. Still you just sit there and complain and cry and cry and cry. That your pebble is not shining as bright as a pearl. You just keep blabbering about how your pebble is not shining, instead of continuing your search for your pearl which you deserve. I told you the secret news. I said to you there are a lot of pearls out there that came to the shore. Not a single one. So instead of sitting and complaining. Go and search your pearl, you will get one. Maybe yours can shine brighter than mine who knows. Even if you can’t find one here in the seashore, why do you have to worry about it? Just think that it was hard luck. You have your parents with you. They would get you a pearl one day, if you believe in them. Just don’t worry with this pebble in your hand. Keep it with you and use it for your fish tank if you want. Else throw it away back into the sea. The ball is in your court. But you never have to worry that pebble is not as shining as the Pearl. That is foolish. Come on cheer up!! I can help you too in searching for pearls. Even my pearl knows a lot of pearls. If you know what I mean..Hahaha..!! Don’t worry dood. We all go through this. Take it easy and move on. She is not the only girl in the world. She may have cared for you, you may have felt it to the core. But she is not meant to be your pearl. She is just a pebble for you. Your Pearl is somewhere out there waiting for you to pick it up. Think about it. That’s all I can say. Anything else is bothering you? Tell me about it”, he said. 

“Yes, Today near Idreams I saw some friends of Joseph and they started chasing me to hit me”, I said 

“Idreams? What! You dash you left me and went for a movie. What! You found a Pearl? So you forgot me? You betrayer!!”, he said.

“I was around here for a work dood. Suddenly came a thought, so I went for the movie. Sorry man”, I said.

“Wait, we have to do something about this Joseph and his friends. We couldn’t forever be careful of not running into them. Come with me, let’s try to speak to Rawther on this”, he said

“What? Rawther? Are you joking? How will we be allowed to see him? For them we are just some kids roaming around doing mischief everywhere. Remember that. And it is dangerous to get into Rawther’s area. I mean Kasimedu”, I said.

“Okay Genius! Do tell me a better idea. Shall we go to the police?”, he said.

“Nooo!!!”, I shouted.

He said, “Calm down, Are you still scared if Joseph will complain about you in the police station for breaking his hand? That will never happen like I said yesterday. Come with me, we have no idea than speaking to Rawther himself. Let’s tell him in a good way that this was a fault of both Joseph and us. And that we will not come across their way anymore any time hereafter. He will understand. And I have never seen him before in person. At least for that come we can go. Anyways we will never get a chance to meet him. He will have a left and right hand. And those left and right hands will have their series of left and right hands. I believe this will be smoother. Let’s see what happens”.

We both got up and started walking back from the beach. I took my phone out and checked the message that I received from that random number. It had 2 Messages. My Heart skipped its beat for a second on reading the second. 

The first one read, “Sorry that I played with you for some time by making you believe that the parcel in your bag had a bomb in it. I am really sorry it was not for hurting your feelings. Just wanted to check how you are handling that situation. You should enjoy a thrill moment too right in your life since this is just gonna last for the next 4-5 days only. 

The second one read, “Now shall we make it more interesting. Shall we? The Parcel you are having is a fully loaded Gun. If you don’t believe me, just open it and check it. But after opening it you are going to make a very important decision in your life. This time you don’t have to follow my orders blindly. Only for this time. Think and Do. Take the Gun and Shoot Tamizh now. Remember you asked your mom to collect a parcel right. The one delivering it is ready now at the footsteps of your house. He will act based on your decision here. You shoot Tamizh, He will leave your mom alone. Else you leave Tamizh alone, He will shoot your Mom. Now decide for yourself – Mom or Machan?!!

Tamizh was walking a bit further before me. I said to him, “Tamizh stop and turn around”. He turned around. I said, “Machan! I am sorry da for doing this”. “Sorry for doing what?”, he said. “For this”, I said and Bangggggggggg flew the bullet.

**To be continued**

One Day…!!

One day you’ll fall again but this time for the right person 

One day, you’re really going to be happy

One day, you’ll live the life you always wanted

Oneday, someone’ll look at you as the same as you dream of

Oneday , you’ll smile just because you know you’re loved by the person you love the most

Oneday . . 

Oneday . . .

Trust me. 

If it’s not today , it’s gonna be tomorrow 

If it’s not tomorrow , Keep waiting , cause one day , you’ll find your person

   I promise you.

   I promise you. 


But Believe me…!!

Being rich by heart > Being rich by money

Someone’s trash will always be a treasure for someone else. So Please practice Sharing.

Anyone can become rich by money. Money can be earned via any ways. You can work hard to earn money. You can cheat others or betray people to earn money. You can Steal or make a heist to earn money even. There are many ways as I said.

But to become rich by heart, there are not many ways. All you have to do is have empathy, be honest and also a heart to give respect to your fellow people, which each one of us deserve.

As we all know Money is indeed a business, we expect back something equal to what we give or sometimes more than that based on many reasons. That is how money works.

But Love is not a business to expect back something on which how much we give them. It is a feeling. You give and as you start giving, you grow to an unimaginable size, infact you become richer, precisely saying richer by heart. And it is the best thing you can see in a human.

The world gets richer not because of the people who are richer by money but by people who are richer by heart.

There were many moments that I have came across in my life which proved me this statement is absolutely right.

Once upon a time I was travelling in a crowded bus. Not so heavily crowded but crowded to a reasonable extent. I was one among those who were standing . One old feeble man got into the bus at one of the stop. He was so weak that his legs were bit shaking while he was standing. I looked around hoping that some one will get up and give their seat for him. But no one even looked towards his side. Some did, but turned their face at once.

But Suddenly I found a kid may be 7-8 years of age, walking out of her favourite window seat to give space for the old man to sit. That moment I felt something. I would say that kid was the richest person in the bus than anyone of us. Even me who didn’t even dared to ask a person for a seat to make the old man to sit. But that kid was awesome. She went and sat down on the lap of her mom after that. The Old man’s face gave me answers to thousands of questions that day.

In another instance, I saw a video of some YouTube channel which also made me believe in this statement more. That video was a interview of a homeless man who was staying on the roadside. One of the person in that team, gave a parcel of food to that homeless man. And another person dressed up as homeless came to him telling that he was so hungry and he had not ate in like 5 days. That moment what that homeless man did made me realize what is the real of meaning of being rich.

That homeless man at the verge of starting to eat,stopped eating and gave the food to the person who was dressed up as homeless and asked him to eat saying that he is not hungry now, he will eat later. But anyone who watches that video can predict that homeless man was so hungry. That heart of giving what he has to others even in the expense of him suffering is another level of richness of heart.

One other instance, I came across a message that was spreading in whatsapp for helping towards the donation for a child with a liver failure. It was said that the mother came forward to provide a part of her liver for her son, but they don’t have the enough money for paying the hospital for starting the operation procedures and other financial things.

I don’t know why but that made some impact inside me that there are many people in this world who are there who need some help in one or other way. But I was not sure if they are being helped really. That fundraiser was going on via an App called Milaap. I went to the link of that app for providing some reasonable amount of money which I can for that child.

Only after navigating to that link, I found that there are any people in this world who are indeed richer by heart. Nearly 12 Lakhs were denoted from various sources into that fundraiser. I saw many people contributing from 10 rupees to 10000 rupees based on their capacity. But I respect those who made their decision to given even a single rupee towards that child. I would say they are indeed richer than the Ambani’s and gates of the world.

Even now, during this beginning period of Covid-19 in India. Rathan Tata came forward and donated nearly 1200+ crores towards the welfare of the nation and to protect the nation from the effects of Covid-19. There I saw a man who was richer by heart and who won millions of heart by his true and pure heart.

Not only this there were many other incidents where I have seen people donating whatever they can to people across states and world like during times of Kerala Floods, Odisha floods etc.

Most important one is Chennai floods in 2016 and also Varadha Storm. December was always worst for TamilNadu in one or other way, once it was due to Tsunami. And most of the times due to Heavy rains, floods, storms etc. During this 2016 floods. People got stuck in their first floor, second floor, terrace etc. That was the time when Youngsters of chennai stood ahead as Volunteers and served in a lot of ways to the community by serving as suppliers of food, transporters of pregnant women from their home to hospital etc etc. They had put their life at risk to serving their people. That is also called being rich by heart. But the people who were rich by money were actually the one who needed help at those times. So money actually became nothing at that point.

I know a person in my life – A Old Lady, who once was to travel in a bus from Tiruvottiyur bus stand to somewhere she wanted to go. She was waiting for the bus very early in the morning at 6 o’clock. The bus depot was completely empty. There was only one bus that was standing there. She went to the waiting place at the center of the bus depot and waited for her bus. Meanwhile the bus which was standing there, started from the depot. When the bus started, a handbag fell down from the bottom of the bus. This Old Lady saw that. She took it in her hand and looked at what was inside. There were some bundles of Indian Rupees inside it. At that point of time, there was absolutely no one around her at the depot. She could have taken it with her and have gone away. But what she did proved there are people who are really rich by heart. She thought she would wait there for the next 1 hour and see if someone came in search of that hand bag. If no one comes, then she would decide whether to give it to police or the bus depot officers. She decided to sacrifice her travel for the next one hour. Exactly after half an hour, a mid aged lady came running inside the bus depot looking everywhere. Her eyes were teary. She ran everywhere. This Old Lady called her and enquired what she was searching for. She said she was searching for a handbag which has 2 Lakhs Money, she has lost it this morning here and it is so important for her to find that money since it was for the medical treatment for her husband. She cried a lot it seems. This Old lady gave her the handbag and advised her not to be this careless always. This time she was there, but not all the time. That mid aged lady fell on the legs of this Old Lady and said, Mother, you are like a god to me. I don’t know who you are. But you and your family will live happily forever. Thanks a lot. That happiness that old lady saw on the face of that mid aged lady after she got back her lost money, she said she has never seen in any face in her lifetime. That Old Lady is none other than my Mom’s Mom. The best Human I have seen. Hats off. I am very proud of being her grandson. Not many people would have done this. Most of our corrupted minds would think in the wrong way always. But only those who have seen everything in their life can do this. She has been through the same situation early may be, I have not asked her that. She was not rich either. But that heart is the richest heart / purest heart which makes her the richest one.

I also had a friend who once, while we were going for a trip together opted out of the trip at the final stage, since he was not having enough money to afford for the trip. On hearing this, another friend of mine came forward to sponsor for two of my friends. He was not rich, he was just as equal in moneywise as anyone of us. But he said me that day, this trip will not happen without even one of them. So we need everyone. we are all friends, so we can share the money and be happy and enjoy the trip to the core.

Also there were many times when he would just give money to people, whenever someone asks him without any hesitation. I have seen him help many people with money related things. That is all because only because of the belief he had in them and also the heart to give. I have learned a lot from him. By seeing him, I realized money is not a matter at all in fact, it is just a material to run our day to day life luxuriously. If we give someone today, they will give us back one day. In terms of money, mostly whatever you give, you get back. But in terms of love, you all receive more than you give them.

Money can come today, and go tomorrow. Being rich by money is always a variable. It may change. You can be rich today and can also become poorer tomorrow even within a second. Only time can answer that. But if you are richer by heart and you are helping someone in need today without thinking about the money. Then One day when you are in trouble, you will have someone who will support you and will stand with you through all the storms.

So I would say Being rich by heart is always greater than Being rich by Money.

Please don’t..!!

  • Don’t flirt with a girl when you don’t really mean anything you say.
  • Don’t text a girl all day long when you’re actually texting more than one girl.
  • Don’t go out on a date with a girl when you’re to take another girl out, the next day.
  • Don’t tell her you’re thinking about her when she isn’t the only girl on your mind.
  • Don’t tell her you miss her when you wouldn’t care if you had never seen her again.
  • Don’t tell her you love her when you would just love to get in her pants.
  • Don’t make her feel like she’s special when there’s other girls who are getting the same treatment from you.
  • Don’t make her promises that you know you aren’t able to keep.
  • Don’t make her believe you care about her when she’s just another girl to you.
  • By doing these things, you get a girl’s hopes up & you give her expectations & because that happens, the disappointment hits her so hard & then she’s emotionally damaged ever after.
  • And for boys like us who really believe in one forever love, we don’t even get a chance at all, because of you.
  • The innocent girls who got cheated by you would just say, “you are just another boy like him right…!!”. 💔
  • And believe me, not all boys are the same. There are ones who would understand you and still is looking patiently for you, who’d value you truly and would treasure you. 
  • But till then, linger on.

Relations of Life..!!

There are two types of relations in everyone’s life. One comes through blood links. They are people both from the maternal and paternal side who care about you. They are one type. 

The other ones are the ones we create by ourselves. The relations which get established by the connection of hearts. It is called Friendship. Friendship can occur between any age irrespective of gender. This can occur between people of the same age or between a kid and an old aged person. Friendship between a kid and an old person can teach a lot of life lessons for the kid.

Relations or the family people are those who we can call as the anchors when we are in rough waters. They would be the first person we would run to whenever our closed ones are in trouble. Not all relatives can be depended upon. But believe me, all friends can be depended upon. Relatives are bonded by blood but friendship is bonded by heart. But both are equally important in a person’s life.

I have many such people in my life who helped me and has been a pillar for me in many situations of my life.

First one for me is my Uncle – My Mom’s Little brother. He did a lot of help for us. But the one incident i will never forget in my life with him, happened during my Engineering Admission time. While filling out the Engineering Counseling application form, I found that it was required to submit the Income Certificate and Nativity Certificate of my Father. Since I was the yet to become first graduate of my family and since I was not aware of all the things that I should do to get those certificates ready that time. My Uncle came forward to help. He is the one we go to, when we were in need of such helps. He with the help of an agent applied for those certificates in Tahsildar’s office. Days passed but the certificate never reached us. We called that agent but that lady said it will come today, it will come tomorrow. But it never came. So the day prior to my day of counselling came and we still did not receive the certificates. And the agent’s phone was also switched off. So me and my Uncle went to the Tahsildar’s office and asked about the status of our application. They said it was not even pushed for processing. It will take atleast 2 weeks or more. We were very frustrated since we had applied for it a long ago and tomorrow is my Day of Counselling. I was so scared, that this will cause an issue in my Counseling procedures. We tried speaking to people there but since we were not a rich or an influential people, they just never cared. My smile dimmed and dimmed. We stayed in office from morning 9 to evening 4, we spoke to a lot of people but no improvement was there. Then my uncle did something which I don’t know if anyone will do for me in this life I have. He is a very dignified person but he fell on the legs of the officer saying that this is so important otherwise I would lose my Counseling opportunity. The officer’s heart melted on seeing that and he approved our documents in next 1 hour after verifying it. He said to my uncle, you have a great heart, you are going this down for helping your Sister’s son. I realized that. Next morning during counselling I found that Income certificate and Nativity Certificate is not that important documents for counseling and it’s okay even if we don’t have it. But that thing my Uncle did for me, still flashes in my eyes day and day. I studied hard in my Engineering for getting good percentage. One of reasons for that is I always said to myself that i will never leave my Uncle’s ‘self respect compromise’, to go in Vain.

Second One – My Other Uncle. My Mom’s Second brother. He has been the most important person of our life. If someone comes to my home, looks around and asks about the things that are there. The reason for it will be him. He is not rich on his own. We are not either. But he is the one who decorated our house after my father built it by putting all of his hard work day by day earning money towards it. Most of the things in my house are his ideas. He took care of our house like from even repairing the Switch boards to painting the house. He was not like a younger brother of my Mom. He was like an elder son to her awlays. That is how it was always. My Mom loved him so much. He was like a brother to me not like an Uncle. All work that needs to be done physically like carrying things around, going to a place to contact a person that all he did for me. And in return, all digital works like Applying for something online, bills payments, recharge things I did. There was a time when many people from my family started criticizing me that I was of no good. They told me that I am having potential but I am wasting it to the core. They said, maybe I will become a loser. Many demotivations came by when I lost the chance to study MBBS. But my Uncle was the only one, who was there behind me. He convinced me, he consoled me. He told me I have potential. Yes indeed and I have a lot of ways to show that out. There is never only one way to succeed. Success has many ways. It is my choice to choose whatever I want and go on working towards that. He said to me, He wanted to see me studying hard, Scoring a top mark and landing up in an AC room Job. That was his only dream of me.

Although, He was the one who motivates me and does a lot for me. His life was a mess. He had all the skills in the world to achieve big, but he never got that opportunity or spark to go big. He was hated by his own family as time passed by, because he started failing in everything he touched. If you get to know his full story, you will know how great a person he is from the heart. He sacrificed a lot in his life for others. But in the end, the people for whom he sacrificed started telling him a failure, useless and went against him completely. He said me once, look at me, although I have skills and talents, yet I am in a mess. Because I have never used it to the fullest. But you, you too have a lot of talents, but you don’t ever waste it. Promise me you will achieve big. You will make your uncle proud. I promised him that day. And I did work hard and I did land up in that AC room Job. I did start developing my passionate skills side by side too. But I lost my Uncle. He is no more. He could not see me succeeding. I am still only half way through in my career although I am in an AC room Job. But my Uncle would be proud to see me where I am now itself. The one person who I miss a lot today is him. He is a very good person from heart. He went to all the edge for his family (Wife and 2 kids) even with all the illness. But his family never understood him till the end. I know who he was, how talented he was, how lovable he was. He is the best multi-talented person I have seen in my life. He can do anything as I said from Painting the house to repairing the AC to anything you can imagine. He is a great person. I miss him badly. He went through a lot of pain before leaving us. Both Physically and mentally. And my eyes shed tears by itself even today for that. Such a good man with a bad ending. I want him as my Uncle if there were really 7 births for a human being. You too would have/ have had such a person in your life. If you have one make them proud of you in front of their eyes at least once. 

Third one: My Best Friend – Not only he is bigger in height but also by heart. There was a time when i was staying in Hyderabad for working in one of my projects. When the project got over and when I was about to leave Hyderabad. We made a plan to add one last trip for the Hyderabad days memory. It was a bike trip towards Kuntalla falls, near the borders of Telengana, Chattisgarh and Maharashtra. That was an Unforgettable day of my life. I saw who he really was that day. I was very proud of having a friend like him that day. When I said to my Mom and Dad about what and all he did for me that day, they were so proud of me for having such a great friend like him. Actually why I am saying this? Why is he great? Why I love him more than any other friend in my life. Yes I will tell you. I met with an accident during our bike trip. That day he took great care of me. He was like a Mom to me that day. I don’t know if I thanked him that day. But I am saying, “Thank you machan”. Whatever new friends I get through passage of my life time. He is my best friend and a friend for whom I can give my life to. He took me in his bike for more than 15 Kms I guess in search of Hospital. I Still remember the words he said to make me forget the pain that I faced because of the injury. We went in search of hospital in that forest area. Accident occurred in a mountainous forest which was like a middle of nowhere. He asked me, How are you? How are you? 5 minutes once. Although it was only Finger injury. I still remember Sitting at the back of his bike while we were riding back to Hyderabad. I saw a Godly friend in him. You know I am emotional. That day and those moments were the most emotional for me. He never left me alone after that. I cried that day thinking of him. How great he was. What and all he did for me to make me feel positive. He booked a flight for me and sent me off to Chennai for my mom to take care of me. I came home and said my mom about Him ! Him! Only him. But the real incident still no one knows in my Family. They know only the story we faked. So sushshshhh. Although I know him for like more than 15 years till date that day was the day that showed me who he really was and how great one can be. I learned from him a lot that day.

Fourth One :- My Moral Support and Best Friend. This guy was a enemy to me when we met first actually. We fight and quarrel always in the college always. It never worked out between us those days. We hated each other like we are the ice and the fire. We hated seeing each other even. But suddenly one day I was in pissed off mode, this was during the beginning of my career. I was placed in an MNC from college. And after intern the manager asked me to join chennai location for my new project. I joined there and after 2 days, he said me that I am transferred to Hyderabad and should leave for Hyderabad at once. he said me that if I don’t join the project in Hyderabad next day, severe actions will be taken on me. I was completely blanked out that moment. I was so pissed. How can I suddenly move to a unknown city overnight and settle there. Although one of my friend is already there. It was difficult for me to digest this decision by my manager. That was the day, this enemy became my best friend and the best support of my life. I was completely biased that day. I made a status in whatsapp that I am pissed off. He was the first to respond. He asked me all the thing that had happened. He said me don’t worry you are travelling to Hyderabad by plane today. I am here you don’t worry. I will pick you up and will drop you at the airport. You don’t have to worry, I am here for you. Although I booked ticket by myself, took a taxi to airport and crossed all airport Procedures for the first time without any prior knowledge. That support from him, that confidence he gave that I can do it, I will never forget in my life.

I know how bad was my mindset that day. I was at the verge of quitting my job. Since I am from a poor family. And I have not been in an aeroplane or that sort of stuff before. So I was totally biased and in complete chaos. But he was the one who gave me a clear piece of mind. He said me that I will get over this soon. That I am capable of surviving in a foreign city with ease. It is just a case of time. If I give time, I will get used to it. That day he gave me all the confidence in the world which even my parents did not. Also after I landed in airport, in Hyderabad and the aftermath years he was there with me through phone everyday. He is the only person I talk to everyday. He was suffering a lot at that time without a job, going through a tough time. But he provided me all the confidence in the world. He became an integral part of my life after that. I have teased him, I have fought with him, I have travelled with him, I have cried to him, I have laughed hard with him. He is like a brother I got out of nowhere. Love you machan.

Fifth one:- This person is travelling along with me in my life since a long time. Actually I have been the Guru for him at times. We discuss about the success stories of the people around the world while walking to a mall to watch a movie, after coming out of a movie, while sitting in a railway station platform, when lying down in our hostel bed. He is like my disciple. I learn a lot from him and he too learns a lot from me. We share each other’s knowledge at all times and will make sure we cover all our bases. We want each other to become big in our life. He has been through a lot of problems lately but he has grown into a strong responsible person now and I strongly hope my disciple will become the greatest disciple ever. He is the one with whom I always discuss about how to achieve something big. So he is special too.

Like wise, you would have a lot of people in your life too. Respect them, safeguard them. Make them proud of having you in their life.

The Bubble Gum theory of Happiness…!!

Chewing Bubble gum taught me a major lesson.

Imagine a ball of chewing gum that never loses its flavour. Now that would be a total aberration right, because that first succulent bite, which gives an awesome feel, will lose all its values. So the bubble gum should lose its flavour gradually with each bite to make it more interesting.

Since every bite, every subsequent bite would not have that exactly identical taste and so strangely enough the boring bits (i.e.) the bits between the first bite and the last bite (till at the point of spitting out the chewing gum) are very essential in understanding the essence of happiness. I found that those boring bits are actually more essential for understanding, realizing and learning on what it means to be Happy. In this case, the happiness is the first bite.

So the point I want to make is !! That boring bit which is a vacuum of happiness is where we become more alive to happiness, most aware of its existence around and also our need for it.

But I am not saying, Boredom is most essential to find happiness, but it is a skill which must be mastered to get to know the value of happiness. We have to endure ourselves to overcome boredom like while chewing the boring bits of the gum, we found an interesting thing like blowing a ball of air out of it, like a balloon or a swelling. We tried things like blowing balloon of bubble gum to the biggest size possible and we resisted the happiness from going out of us during those boring bits.

We sustained ourselves through those boredom periods somehow. That is how we can feel, we can realize the true flavour of happiness. Happiness is something we find from within. Whatever situation we are in, it’s only us who can find the much needed happiness.

French Fries…!!

This is the one of the recipes that needs maximum of only two ingredients:

Ingredient list:

  • Potato
  • Oil ( Palm/Refined) (Your Choice)
  • Salt (If needed)


  • Take as much potatoes as needed based on the number of people you are cooking for and wash them in a bowl of cold water. If it’s only for you, 2 big sized potatoes are more than enough.
  • Peel the skin of the potato with a peeler or knife. Be careful while handling sharp equipments. Don’t waste the useful part of the potato. Peel off only the skin part.
  • Then cut the potato into two so that it will have two long vertical halves. Then slice them as required in the shape we actually make for french fries. (You know the shape)
  • Then Place them in a bowl of cool water for 20 minutes.
  • After that place the pieces of potato in a hot water or boil the pieces in water for 10 minutes so that the inner portion of the pieces will get cooked up a bit and will not be raw in the end.
  • Then take it out, dry it down, if possible remove the water by placing them on a clean cloth and gently rubbing.
  • Then refrigerate the dried pieces for 10-15 minutes to remove the water completely.
  • You can also skip the refrigerating part.

Actual Cooking Recipe:

  • Pour oil into a deep frying type of Pan and heat it with medium flame.
  • Then drop the pieces of potato in batches as per your comfort.
  • Let them cook (each batch) for just 3-5 minutes and take them out till they are still white in colour and place them in a plate with paper.
  • Then you can use the same oil or new oil, as per your comfort. Increase the flame to a bit higher than medium but a bit lower than high. Let the oil heat up. But don’t heat it for long. That will over cook your fries when you drop them in and will ruin it up ( it will turn them into black colour).
  • So a flame slightly higher than medium is always preferable.
  • Then drop the pieces of potatoes again into the oil. Deep fry them till they are golden brown in colour. Take them out and dry them on a plate with paper. (Paper will absorb the oil completely, believe me)
  • Transfer them into a different vessel sprinkle salt into them and mix it if needed.
  • Else you can use Tomato sauce directly without any salt.
  • Enjoy your French Fries evening snacks by watching nice movie along with it.

This is the simplest recipe with absolutely very less number of ingredients and the recipe which we all love.

Just Sharing the same to those who don’t know it. I have started my cooking lessons. This is my First. Hope you too would start yours. What’s life without Food and cooking.

Yummy French Fries

என் எதிர்கால மனைவிக்கு.!!

இந்த உலகத்துல எவ்வளவோ அழகான பொண்ணுங்க இருக்காங்க. ஆனா அதுல ஒன்னு நமக்கு கிடைக்குமானுதான் இங்க நிறைய பசங்களுக்கு பயமே.

நான் எப்பவுமே பொண்ணுங்களோட தோல் நிறத்த வச்சி அவங்க அழகா இல்லையானு மதிப்பிடுறதில்லங்க. ஒரு காலத்துல நான் அப்படி இருந்துருக்கலாம்…தெரியல.But I realized that is not the reality as time passed by. ஆனா ஒன்னு பொண்ணு வெள்ளையா இருந்தாலும், அந்த பொண்ணோட Character சரி இல்லனா, அவ அழகா தெரியிறது கொஞ்ச கொஞ்சமா நின்னுரும்ங்க. நிறத்தோட அழகு முதல் தடவ பாக்குறப்ப அழகா தெரியலாம். ஆனா உள்ளத்தோட அழகு ஒவ்வொரு தடவ பாக்குறப்பயும் அவ அழக கூட்டிக் கிட்டே போகும். எனக்கு உள்ளத்தோட அழகு மேலதான் நிறைய நம்பிக்கை.

நான் இந்த கவிதைல, பாட்டுல வர மாதிரி உங்கள ஏழேழு ஜென்மமும் Love பண்ணுவன், நெனச்சிட்டே இருப்பென், அப்புடினுலாம் கதை சொல்ல மாட்டேன். ஆனா ஒன்னு உங்க உயிர் இந்த பூமில இருக்கிற வர மட்டும் இல்லாம, என் உயிர் இந்த பூமில இருக்குற வரைக்கும் உங்க ஒருத்தர மட்டும் தான் என் உயிரா நெனச்சுட்டு இருப்பேன்.

எனக்கு எந்த Restrictionsஓ இல்ல Conditionsஓ எதுமே இல்ல உங்க கிட்ட கேக்க. உங்க சின்ன வயசுல இருந்து நீங்க ஒரு கனவு வச்சிருந்திற்பீங்கள நான் இப்படி ஆகனும், நான் அப்படி ஆகனும், நான் இப்படி வாழனும், நான் அப்படி வாழனும்னு, நீங்க என் கிட்ட சொல்லுங்க எப்படி வாழனும்னு என்னால முடிஞ்ச வர, என் இறுதி மூச்சு இருக்குற வர, உங்கள நான் உங்களுக்கு புடிச்ச மாதிரி வாழ வைக்க டிரை பண்றன்…பண்ணுவேன்.

நீங்க என் மனைவியா வந்தா உங்களுக்காக நான் எந்த தியாகத்தையும் செய்ய தயார்ங்க. ஏன்னு கேக்குரிங்களா? என்ன பாத்துக்க என் வீட்ல என் அம்மா இருப்பாங்க என் அப்பா இருப்பாங்க. ஆனா நீங்க என் ஒருத்தன நம்பி தான என் வீட்டுக்கு வறிங்க‌. இவன் நம்மல எந்த ஒரு நிலமைலயும் உடைஞ்சு போக விட மாட்டான். நம்ம கைய கெட்டியா புடிச்சிகிட்டு, நம்மல அவன் கைல தாங்கிக்கிட்டு, நல்லா பாத்துப்பான்னு. அந்த ஒரு நம்பிக்கைல தான. அதுக்காக என் அப்பா அம்மா உங்கள பாத்துக்க மாட்டாங்கனு சொல்லல. அவங்க உங்கள தன் பொண்ணு மாதிரி பாத்துப்பாங்க, அது வேற விஷயம்‌. ஆனா நீங்க என் வீட்டுக்கு வறது, என்னை முதன்மையா நம்பி தான‌. அதான் இத சொல்றன்‌.

அப்பறம் ஒரு விஷயம், எப்பவாவது உங்களுக்கும் என் அம்மாக்கும் எதா ஒரு சின்ன பிரச்சினை வந்துச்சினா கூட. நான் உங்க sideம் கிடையாது என் அம்மா sideம் கிடையாது. ரெண்டு பேர் கிட்டையும் தனியா பேசி பிரச்சினைய புரிஞ்சிக்கிட்டு, நான் ரெண்டு பேர் கால் லயும் விழுந்துர்வன் ஓபனா,… நிறுத்துங்கன்னு. ஏன்னா எனக்கு ரெண்டு பேரும் முக்கியம். இத நான் இப்பவே சொல்லிற்றென்.

நீங்க என் மனைவி ஆயிட்டா உங்க அப்பாவும் அம்மாவும் எனக்கு அப்பா அம்மா மாதிரி தான். அதனால அவங்கள பத்துன கவலைய அதோட நீங்க மறந்துடுங்க. அத என் கிட்ட விட்டுருங்க. அவங்களோட சந்தோஷம் சோகத்தை பகிர்ந்துகர்துல மொத ஆளா உங்களுக்கு முன்னாடி நான் நிப்பென்.

நீங்க ஒரு வேல யாரயா Love பண்ணிர்கலாம். நானும் பண்ணிர்கலாம் இல்லனு சொல்லல. நீங்க உங்க time எடுத்துக்கங்க என்ன Love பண்ண. ஆனா நான் உங்கள அணு அணு வா Love பண்ணுவேன். நீங்க பண்ற சின்ன சின்ன சுட்டித் தனமான விஷயங்களையும். உங்க சிரிப்ப Love பண்ணுவேன்..உங்க நடைய Love பண்ணுவேன்..இதோ இந்த கண்கள Love பண்ணுவேன்…Atom by Atom…Molecule by Molecule..from your Zero to infinity…everything..என்னா நீங்க என் உயிர் ஆச்சே இல்லாமயா.

என் மனசுக்கு எப்பவாவது வலி வந்தா…நான் ஓடி வர முதல் ஆள் என் அம்மா தான்..இதுக்கு அப்புறம் அது ரெண்டு பேரா மாறிடும். நான் என்னிக்காவது தெரியாம எதோ ஒரு வலில உங்கள திட்டிட்டனா என்ன மன்னிச்சிருங்க எதையும் பாக்காம. ஏன்னா நான் அந்த மாறி type கிடையாது, ஆனால் ஒரு வேலை நடந்தால்…அதான் உங்க கிட்ட இப்பவே முன்கூட்டியே மன்னிப்பு கேட்டுக்கிறன்…சாரி.

ஒன்னு சொல்லிக்கிறேன் உங்க கண்ணுல இருந்து வர கண்ணீர் என் உடம்புல இருந்து வர இரத்ததுக்கு சமமா நான் பார்ப்பேன். I will give as much attention as I can towards stopping your tears from shedding, than my own blood shedding from my body. The only time you will cry is when I shed my blood. That I will make it impossible in this lifetime of mine

பொண்ணா பொறந்தா வலிகள் அனுபவிச்சு தான் ஆகனும்னு சொல்லுவாங்க. ஆனா நீங்க எதையும் தனியா அனுபவிக்க நான் விட மாட்டேன். என் தோள் இருக்கு உங்கள தாங்க, என் இதயம் இருக்கு உங்க வலிகள பகிற. என்னிக்குமே எதுக்குமே எப்பவுமே நான் இருக்கேன் நீங்க சாஞ்சிக்க. உங்க உயிரோட பாதியா உங்க இதயம் செல்லும் வீதியா உங்களோட மீதியா என்னிக்குமே உங்கள நிம்மதியா வச்சிப்பேன். 

நான் சொல்லனும்னா சொல்லிக்கிட்டே இருப்பேன், நீங்க யோசிச்சி சொல்லுங்க. நான் எப்படி இருக்கனும்னு.


Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet mom?
Wishing something for me to god again?
If yes, Please ask God to grant her everything whatever.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Or Is it my cool Dad?
Is he thinking about my future?
If yes, Please tell him that I will nurture our future.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Or is it my stupid sibling?
Is that stupid planning a prank to execute on me?
If yes, Please tell that stupid it is never gonna happen.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Or Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Does she wanna hug me or kiss me?
If yes, tell her we have a lifetime for that.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Or is it the ever-beautiful Moon?
Does She wanna play hide and seek with me?
If yes, tell her I am not in a mood.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Is it the ever-beautiful Moon?
Or is it the soul soothing sea breeze?
Does She wanna touch my face while flowing through my home?
If yes, tell her that may be another time.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Is it the ever-beautiful Moon?
Is it the soul soothing sea breeze?
Or is it the Rain drops?
Does She want me to shake my body to her rhythm?
If yes, tell her that I cannot at this moment.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Is it the ever-beautiful Moon?
Is it the soul soothing sea breeze?
Is it the Rain drops?
Or is it the snowy mountains?
Does He want me to ski through his snow?
If yes, tell him I am not available at the moment.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Is it the ever-beautiful Moon?
Is it the soul soothing sea breeze?
Is it the Rain drops?
Is it the snowy mountains?
Or is it the Scorching Sun?
Does he want me to sit on a chair in the beach side shack with sunglasses under his reign.
If yes, tell him not the right time.
I want to sleep now.
Oh Hiccup !
Hey Hiccup !
Why are you knocking my door now?
Who is it now thinking about me?
Is it my sweet Mom?
Is it my cool Dad?
Is it my stupid sibling?
Is it my gorgeous girlfriend?
Is it the ever-beautiful Moon?
Is it the soul soothing sea breeze?
Is it the Rain drops?
Is it the snowy mountains?
Is it the Scorching Sun?
Or is it my Best Friend?
Please tell me, is it my Best Friend?
If yes, Tell that Buffkin, I am on my way.
Because a Friend in need is a Friend Indeed.
I know you will not stop.
Actually I don’t know how to stop you.
But I will give my life for that Buffkin.
Take it, Hey Hiccup
Oh My Hiccup

Quotes Compilation II !!

Don’t live your life, just for earning money. Earn money side by side, while living your life. As you know, there is a difference between Living and Surviving. Don’t Just Survive. Live.

When I was a kid, people always told me I was going to be a heartbreaker when I got older. They didn’t mention that it would be my own heart.

No matter how much we want, how much effort we put…. with some people we just don’t have a happy ending.

The world will knock you down plenty. You don’t need to be doing it to yourself.

I have always been someone who looks too deep into someone or something. That is because I realized at a young age that there is always more than what meets the eye.

Being sad sometimes, yes. Becoming a sad person, no.

No matter how much you do for someone. If you’re doing it for the wrong person, it’ll go unappreciated.

Someday soon i will be living my best life making more money, doing what I’ve always dream’t of, traveling everywhere and thriving off the love i have for life and myself

There will be a lot of people in this world who will not believe in you, but make sure you are not one among it.

Love never ruins friendship.. rather it makes bonding stronger.. if love is two sided then it’s the best thing as you have your best friend as lover but if one sided better to keep it with you and keep distance, as to see your love with someone else will hurt you.

Me to Me: You are there for them, but who is there for you?

Someone: Why are you single?
Me: I just don’t feel comfortable being anyone’s boy friend. I don’t want to be anyone’s anything. You know.

You are the fireworks in my dark dull night.

Just to make sure, I am not the only one. I started hearing out the problems faced by all the people I know. And it felt like I was just taking a shower in the middle of a heavy rain.

My thumb unlocks my phone each and every moment only in the hope that you will call me someday.

Can we start again…I promise I will never say…I Love you again.

When best friendships are ruined because of love, save the friendships; for they last longer than love.

You can hide your words by making a promise… but, you can’t hide your  emotions.

Short absence thickens love. Long absence kills it.

I wish….I wish to share that same old bond with you…I miss that….I miss you…Why did things have to change?

Remember, No one conveys love to every friend, he would have in his life. It is only to those that really connect with him and whom, he believes is that only one may be soul mate of his life. Remember that too.

I am not very sure, if my lips smile in your presence, but my heart does.

Some souls just understand each other upon meeting. Sometimes you meet a person and you just click. You’re too comfortable with them, like you’ve known them for your whole life, and you don’t have to pretend to be anyone or anything.

If it comes first from girl, it’s true love.
If it comes first from boy, he spoiled the friendship and everything. What an irony is this?

I loved you but it was never once in the belief that you will love me back.

I believe internet is the main reason for pushing people into depression. That is the platform where people mostly see what each other have and don’t have, they start comparing and they hate themselves more, instead appreciating what they have.

People who cannot understand our heart, they can never understand our words.

No one needs a Jackpot, to enjoy and experience the life to its core. Finding happiness in little things is more than enough.

Going behind people who don’t even care if we exist or not, is the pinnacle of foolishness

One day love met friendship!
Love asked: Why do you exist when I already exist ?
Friendship replied: To put a smile where you have left tears.

In between goals there is a thing called life, which must be lived and enjoyed.

The brother and sister relationship comes from Heart not from blood.

I don’t want anything from you. I just want to be the person you choose to sit next to, in a room full of people, you know.

When someone scolds me for not taking care of myself. That moment is really priceless, it means a lot when someone genuinely cares.